"Therefore I do pray and entreat you in the name of Jesus Christ to do so much as to make my being here in Japan known to my poor wife, in a manner a widow and my two children fatherless; which thing only is my greatest grief of heart and conscience"
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The intent is practical and urgent. In an era when a missing husband easily became a dead husband, silence turns a wife into “a widow” by default and children into “fatherless” dependents, socially and economically. Adams understands that the worst outcome isn’t his captivity or exile; it’s his family living in a lie that the world will treat as truth. “Which thing only is my greatest grief” is an attempt to rank suffering, and it’s telling that he puts conscience ahead of comfort. He’s haunted not by what’s happening to him, but by what his absence is doing to them.
The subtext is a quiet indictment of the systems that romanticize voyages while abandoning the people left behind. Invoking “the name of Jesus Christ” isn’t just piety; it’s leverage, a moral claim on the reader to act. In that one clause, Adams turns an oceanic epic into a domestic emergency, collapsing the distance between Japan and home into the smallest, most human request: tell them I’m alive.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Adams, Will. (2026, January 15). Therefore I do pray and entreat you in the name of Jesus Christ to do so much as to make my being here in Japan known to my poor wife, in a manner a widow and my two children fatherless; which thing only is my greatest grief of heart and conscience. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/therefore-i-do-pray-and-entreat-you-in-the-name-159927/
Chicago Style
Adams, Will. "Therefore I do pray and entreat you in the name of Jesus Christ to do so much as to make my being here in Japan known to my poor wife, in a manner a widow and my two children fatherless; which thing only is my greatest grief of heart and conscience." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/therefore-i-do-pray-and-entreat-you-in-the-name-159927/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Therefore I do pray and entreat you in the name of Jesus Christ to do so much as to make my being here in Japan known to my poor wife, in a manner a widow and my two children fatherless; which thing only is my greatest grief of heart and conscience." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/therefore-i-do-pray-and-entreat-you-in-the-name-159927/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.








