"There's a lot about the character. It doesn't always happen, but there are some characters you really create a relationship with, almost as if they were your friend. And you never get into their heads again or think like them"
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The subtext is a quiet rebuttal to the romantic myth of actors “becoming” roles forever, or living in character as a badge of seriousness. Hayek frames the relationship as something that “doesn’t always happen,” which reads like professional honesty: not every part is a soulmate, not every production is transformational. But when it does happen, it’s not mystical; it’s relational. You build patterns of thought, reflexes, even private jokes with an invented person, and then you dismantle them on command.
Context matters here because Hayek’s career has often been filtered through an industry that wants her to be either archetype or accessory. Emphasizing the personal bond is a way of reclaiming interiority: characters aren’t costumes, they’re mental ecosystems you have to inhabit convincingly. The final line lands like a protective spell. You can love the “friend,” you can grieve the goodbye, but you don’t owe anyone your psyche as a permanent rental.
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Hayek, Salma. (2026, January 15). There's a lot about the character. It doesn't always happen, but there are some characters you really create a relationship with, almost as if they were your friend. And you never get into their heads again or think like them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-lot-about-the-character-it-doesnt-always-166605/
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Hayek, Salma. "There's a lot about the character. It doesn't always happen, but there are some characters you really create a relationship with, almost as if they were your friend. And you never get into their heads again or think like them." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-lot-about-the-character-it-doesnt-always-166605/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There's a lot about the character. It doesn't always happen, but there are some characters you really create a relationship with, almost as if they were your friend. And you never get into their heads again or think like them." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-lot-about-the-character-it-doesnt-always-166605/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.



