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Life's Pleasures Quote by Peter Steele

"There's a lot of things that go on when you're on tour that cannot be controlled. I'm not even talking about myself, but of course there's sexual activity and drugs, fighting and language; it is certainly not a place to raise a family"

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Steele’s line reads like a confession that refuses the glamour tax rock culture usually demands. He’s not selling the tour as freedom; he’s describing it as an ecosystem with its own weather, and his key move is to frame the chaos as structural rather than personal: “I’m not even talking about myself.” That disclaimer isn’t innocence so much as an admission that, on the road, individual virtue barely matters. The environment wins.

The blunt inventory - “sexual activity and drugs, fighting and language” - is deliberately unromantic. “Language” lands almost comically amid the heavier sins, a small tell that he’s talking about constant exposure: not just danger, but atmosphere. It’s the everyday coarsening, the 3 a.m. bus conversations, the backstage normalizing of extremes. Steele’s intent is less moral panic than boundary-setting: the tour isn’t a “bad influence,” it’s an adult space designed around performance, impulse, and survival.

Context matters: Steele came out of a metal scene that traded in transgression as branding, and he was famous for a persona that blurred sincerity and provocation. Here he drops the theater and offers a practical ethic: don’t pretend you can domesticate a machine built for motion and appetite. The subtext is grief as much as realism - the recognition that the job you love can also quietly disqualify you from the life you’re supposed to want.

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Steele, Peter. (2026, January 17). There's a lot of things that go on when you're on tour that cannot be controlled. I'm not even talking about myself, but of course there's sexual activity and drugs, fighting and language; it is certainly not a place to raise a family. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-lot-of-things-that-go-on-when-youre-on-62594/

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Steele, Peter. "There's a lot of things that go on when you're on tour that cannot be controlled. I'm not even talking about myself, but of course there's sexual activity and drugs, fighting and language; it is certainly not a place to raise a family." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-lot-of-things-that-go-on-when-youre-on-62594/.

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"There's a lot of things that go on when you're on tour that cannot be controlled. I'm not even talking about myself, but of course there's sexual activity and drugs, fighting and language; it is certainly not a place to raise a family." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-lot-of-things-that-go-on-when-youre-on-62594/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.

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Peter Steele (January 4, 1962 - April 14, 2010) was a Musician from USA.

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