"There's a power in women being women. There's a role for men, but we don't have to be men, because we're women. I think that representing that on television is a cool thing"
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The subtext is an industry note: women characters are still too often treated as an exception that must justify itself by adopting masculine defaults. Elfman’s “There’s a role for men” nods to complementarity without surrendering to it; she’s careful not to sound anti-men, because pop-culture debates punish that stance quickly and publicly. The key move is the refusal: “we don’t have to be men.” It’s less about denying masculinity than rejecting the idea that masculinity is the price of admission to competence.
“Representing that on television” flags the real arena. TV doesn’t just reflect gender; it trains audiences in what power looks like. When the medium only celebrates women who perform masculinity, it quietly teaches that femininity is decorative, not decisive. Elfman’s “cool thing” is breezy, but it’s also strategic: she frames representation as desirable, not dutiful. It’s a pitch for characters who can be vulnerable without being weak, soft without being sidelined, feminine without being disqualified from agency.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Elfman, Jenna. (2026, January 16). There's a power in women being women. There's a role for men, but we don't have to be men, because we're women. I think that representing that on television is a cool thing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-power-in-women-being-women-theres-a-role-106778/
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Elfman, Jenna. "There's a power in women being women. There's a role for men, but we don't have to be men, because we're women. I think that representing that on television is a cool thing." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-power-in-women-being-women-theres-a-role-106778/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There's a power in women being women. There's a role for men, but we don't have to be men, because we're women. I think that representing that on television is a cool thing." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-power-in-women-being-women-theres-a-role-106778/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




