"There's a side of me that dislikes feminism. I think we surrendered something and women were unable to reveal any kind of vulnerability"
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The subtext is a familiar, culturally sticky anxiety: that empowerment has been misinterpreted as emotional invulnerability, that strength requires a hard shell. Hunter’s “we” is doing heavy lifting, blurring differences among women and eras to create a single narrative of loss. It’s rhetorically smart because it invites recognition from anyone who’s felt pressured to be “strong” in ways that cancel out softness. It also smuggles in a critique of feminism as a monolith, blaming the movement for what might be better understood as capitalism’s demand for high-functioning femininity: be independent, be polished, don’t need too much.
The intent feels less like anti-feminist ideology than a bid to reclaim permission to fall apart - to say, I want equality without the emotional austerity. The catch is that feminism didn’t ban vulnerability; it challenged the expectation that women must be vulnerable to be acceptable. Hunter’s nostalgia points to a real cultural tension, but it risks romanticizing the very power imbalance that once made “vulnerability” mandatory rather than chosen.
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Hunter, Rachel. (2026, January 15). There's a side of me that dislikes feminism. I think we surrendered something and women were unable to reveal any kind of vulnerability. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-side-of-me-that-dislikes-feminism-i-165677/
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Hunter, Rachel. "There's a side of me that dislikes feminism. I think we surrendered something and women were unable to reveal any kind of vulnerability." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-side-of-me-that-dislikes-feminism-i-165677/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There's a side of me that dislikes feminism. I think we surrendered something and women were unable to reveal any kind of vulnerability." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-side-of-me-that-dislikes-feminism-i-165677/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.



