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"There's a way about it: tearing people down, but not tearing them apart"

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“Tearing people down” is the ugly verb we recognize from the internet: mockery as sport, status built on someone else’s humiliation. Shanks’s twist is the second clause, a moral speed bump that turns the line into a working actor’s rule for surviving criticism-heavy ecosystems without becoming a monster. In performance culture, you’re constantly “torn down” in auditions, reviews, notes, and fan commentary; the language of improvement is often indistinguishable from the language of insult. The quote carves out a narrow, practical middle lane: be blunt, even ruthless, but stop short of annihilation.

The intent feels less like a plea for kindness than a demand for precision. “Not tearing them apart” implies boundaries: critique the work, the choice, the behavior - not the person’s basic worth. It’s the difference between “that scene isn’t landing” and “you don’t have it.” One is actionable; the other is identity warfare.

Subtextually, it’s also a comment on power. The people doing the tearing are rarely peers; they’re directors, producers, reviewers, fandoms - crowds with leverage. Shanks’s phrasing acknowledges that takedowns will happen, then quietly insists on responsibility in how they’re delivered. It’s a code for creative spaces (and workplaces) that fetishize “brutal honesty” as a personality, confusing cruelty for high standards.

Context matters: an actor known for genre TV understands communities that can be intensely devoted and intensely punishing. The line reads like hard-earned etiquette for living under a microscope: keep the edge, lose the sadism.

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Shanks, Michael. (2026, January 17). There's a way about it: tearing people down, but not tearing them apart. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-way-about-it-tearing-people-down-but-not-67732/

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Shanks, Michael. "There's a way about it: tearing people down, but not tearing them apart." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-way-about-it-tearing-people-down-but-not-67732/.

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"There's a way about it: tearing people down, but not tearing them apart." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-a-way-about-it-tearing-people-down-but-not-67732/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Michael Shanks (born December 15, 1970) is a Actor from Canada.

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