"There's all these ways to instantly communicate - cars, computers, telephone and transportation - and even with all that, it's so hard to find people and have an honest communication with them"
About this Quote
The key phrase is “find people,” not “message people.” He is talking about presence, not access. “Honest communication” is the other tell: honesty implies friction, stakes, and the possibility of disappointing someone. That is exactly what many “instant” channels help us avoid. Technology doesn’t just speed up talk; it offers escape hatches - read receipts, vague texts, curated feeds, calls you can ignore, mobility that lets you leave a room before anything gets uncomfortable. Convenience becomes a kind of social anesthesia.
Coming from an actor, the subtext sharpens. Actors traffic in scripted intimacy: they simulate candor for a living, often more convincingly than people manage off-camera. Schwartzman’s lament lands as a backstage observation about the culture at large: we have never been more connected to the logistics of one another’s lives, and never more practiced at dodging the hard, unstreamlined parts of being known. The quote works because it’s less anti-tech than pro-vulnerability, diagnosing the real bottleneck as human, not mechanical.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Schwartzman, Jason. (2026, January 15). There's all these ways to instantly communicate - cars, computers, telephone and transportation - and even with all that, it's so hard to find people and have an honest communication with them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-all-these-ways-to-instantly-communicate--153541/
Chicago Style
Schwartzman, Jason. "There's all these ways to instantly communicate - cars, computers, telephone and transportation - and even with all that, it's so hard to find people and have an honest communication with them." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-all-these-ways-to-instantly-communicate--153541/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There's all these ways to instantly communicate - cars, computers, telephone and transportation - and even with all that, it's so hard to find people and have an honest communication with them." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-all-these-ways-to-instantly-communicate--153541/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






