"There's no changing your mind about whom you love. That's part of the tough thing about being in love - it's sort of undeniable"
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The phrasing does double duty. “Whom you love” sounds almost formal, even courtroom-clean, as if trying to make the irrational presentable. Then she undercuts that composure with “tough thing,” a plainspoken admission that the cost isn’t dramatic tragedy so much as daily inconvenience: you still care even when it’s impractical, even when it makes you look foolish, even when you wish you didn’t. “Sort of undeniable” is the key hedge. She doesn’t call love destiny; she calls it evidence. You can minimize it, negotiate with it, pretend it’s temporary, but it keeps showing up like a fact you don’t get to vote on.
As an actress’s observation, it also reads like a performance note about how to play love on screen: don’t sell it as choice or moral clarity; sell it as compulsion with a conscience. The subtext is permission - to stop litigating your own feelings - and a warning: love’s power isn’t that it saves you. It’s that it won’t ask for your consent.
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| Topic | Love |
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Perabo, Piper. (2026, January 17). There's no changing your mind about whom you love. That's part of the tough thing about being in love - it's sort of undeniable. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-no-changing-your-mind-about-whom-you-love-79439/
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Perabo, Piper. "There's no changing your mind about whom you love. That's part of the tough thing about being in love - it's sort of undeniable." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-no-changing-your-mind-about-whom-you-love-79439/.
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"There's no changing your mind about whom you love. That's part of the tough thing about being in love - it's sort of undeniable." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-no-changing-your-mind-about-whom-you-love-79439/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.











