"There's no dancing girls. We're kinda like secondary to the thing. It's a story about these two guys that are in love with this one girl and how it unfolds and what happens"
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The phrasing “We’re kinda like secondary to the thing” is doing quiet work. Carr isn’t just being modest; he’s repositioning the band as a delivery system for story rather than the story itself. That’s a striking move for someone associated with a famously theatrical brand. It signals self-awareness about performance as machinery, and it hints at a moment when rock acts were being asked to grow up, to prove they could carry plot and emotion without props.
Then he drops the hook: two guys, one girl, love as a triangle rather than a triumph. It’s a classic structure, but he frames it with plainspoken sincerity, emphasizing “how it unfolds and what happens” over moralizing or fantasy. Subtext: the drama is the point, not the glamour; consequences matter. Carr’s intent feels less like renunciation of showmanship and more like a bid for credibility, a reminder that even inside a larger-than-life rock ecosystem, storytelling can still be the main event.
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| Topic | Love |
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Carr, Eric. (2026, January 16). There's no dancing girls. We're kinda like secondary to the thing. It's a story about these two guys that are in love with this one girl and how it unfolds and what happens. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-no-dancing-girls-were-kinda-like-secondary-104580/
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Carr, Eric. "There's no dancing girls. We're kinda like secondary to the thing. It's a story about these two guys that are in love with this one girl and how it unfolds and what happens." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-no-dancing-girls-were-kinda-like-secondary-104580/.
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"There's no dancing girls. We're kinda like secondary to the thing. It's a story about these two guys that are in love with this one girl and how it unfolds and what happens." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-no-dancing-girls-were-kinda-like-secondary-104580/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.






