"There's only so many times you can read how ugly you are and how much people hate you"
About this Quote
The specificity of “how ugly you are” matters. It calls out the misogynistic default setting of celebrity criticism, where a woman’s body becomes the easiest proxy for judging her worth. “How much people hate you” escalates from aesthetics to annihilation, capturing how online pile-ons aren’t just negative reviews; they’re identity attacks, delivered with the anonymity and momentum of a crowd.
Caplan’s intent isn’t to ask for pity; it’s to puncture the fantasy that visibility equals armor. As an actress, she’s expected to accept scrutiny as part of the job, yet this line exposes the bait-and-switch: you sign up to be watched, not to be dehumanized. The subtext is a critique of our engagement economy, where platforms reward the hottest take and the cruelest phrasing, and where “just don’t read it” becomes a lazy alibi for systems designed to put it in your face.
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| Topic | Mental Health |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Caplan, Lizzy. (2026, January 15). There's only so many times you can read how ugly you are and how much people hate you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-only-so-many-times-you-can-read-how-ugly-164180/
Chicago Style
Caplan, Lizzy. "There's only so many times you can read how ugly you are and how much people hate you." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-only-so-many-times-you-can-read-how-ugly-164180/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There's only so many times you can read how ugly you are and how much people hate you." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-only-so-many-times-you-can-read-how-ugly-164180/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.











