"There's some things you just have to live with. Like twelve cars camping outside your house, and when you wake up in the morning, they're going to follow you wherever you go. It helps that I live in Valencia. It eliminates some. But they're still here"
About this Quote
The line “There’s some things you just have to live with” is resignation dressed up as maturity. It’s also a quiet indictment of the industry’s emotional contract: you get the opportunities, you surrender the perimeter of your life. Lautner doesn’t claim it’s unfair; he suggests fairness is beside the point. This is the deal, and complaining is culturally coded as ungrateful.
Valencia functions as both geography and strategy. “It helps that I live in Valencia. It eliminates some.” The vagueness implies a learned skill in disappearing - not fleeing fame entirely, just thinning the crowd. Yet “But they’re still here” snaps the fantasy of control. Even distance is only a filter, not protection.
Read in the context of Lautner’s Twilight-era spotlight, the quote captures a specific early-2010s celebrity ecology: relentless tabloid demand, car-to-car pursuit, attention monetized by proximity. It’s less a confession than a reality check: privacy isn’t something you lose once. It’s something that gets followed.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lautner, Taylor. (2026, January 16). There's some things you just have to live with. Like twelve cars camping outside your house, and when you wake up in the morning, they're going to follow you wherever you go. It helps that I live in Valencia. It eliminates some. But they're still here. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-some-things-you-just-have-to-live-with-93989/
Chicago Style
Lautner, Taylor. "There's some things you just have to live with. Like twelve cars camping outside your house, and when you wake up in the morning, they're going to follow you wherever you go. It helps that I live in Valencia. It eliminates some. But they're still here." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-some-things-you-just-have-to-live-with-93989/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There's some things you just have to live with. Like twelve cars camping outside your house, and when you wake up in the morning, they're going to follow you wherever you go. It helps that I live in Valencia. It eliminates some. But they're still here." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-some-things-you-just-have-to-live-with-93989/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.







