"There's something liberating about not pretending. Dare to embarrass yourself. Risk"
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The imperative mood does the heavy lifting. “Dare.” “Risk.” These aren’t gentle affirmations; they’re dares that rebrand vulnerability as courage, almost athletic. “Dare to embarrass yourself” cuts against the modern anxiety economy, where the worst fear isn’t failure but cringe: being screenshot, misread, memed. Barrymore’s subtext is that the real trap is preemptive self-editing, the way people sand down their edges to avoid social penalties. Embarrassment becomes proof you’re still improvising, still trying, still alive in public.
Context matters: Barrymore grew up under the harshest version of public scrutiny, a child star whose missteps were syndicated as entertainment. Coming from her, “not pretending” isn’t naive self-help; it’s hard-earned strategy. She’s arguing that you can’t out-perform judgment, you can only outlive it. The liberation is pragmatic: when you stop managing everyone else’s reaction, you finally have room to take the risks that make a real life.
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"There's something liberating about not pretending. Dare to embarrass yourself. Risk." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theres-something-liberating-about-not-pretending-145384/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.





