"These are men and women who are willing to risk their lives in defense of their country. And the fact that their orientation - sexual orientation's been held against them is a blot on our nation's reputation"
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The phrasing is built to disarm predictable objections. He doesn’t lead with abstract rights language that can be dismissed as “special treatment.” He leads with duty and reciprocity: if you’ll defend the country, the country owes you dignity. That’s the subtextual bargain he’s enforcing.
Then comes the rhetorical pivot: “orientation - sexual orientation’s been held against them.” The stuttered clarification reads like a deliberate narrowing, anticipating bad-faith conflations (behavior, morality, “lifestyle”) and insisting on the plain fact of identity being used as a weapon. He’s naming discrimination without letting opponents redefine the terms.
Calling it “a blot on our nation’s reputation” internationalizes the stakes. This isn’t just about internal policy; it’s about America’s self-mythology and global branding as a rights-respecting democracy. In context - debates around “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” and military inclusion - Durbin frames equality not as cultural experimentation but as national hygiene: remove the stain, align practice with professed values, stop demanding heroism from people you won’t fully honor.
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| Topic | Human Rights |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Durbin, Dick. (2026, January 17). These are men and women who are willing to risk their lives in defense of their country. And the fact that their orientation - sexual orientation's been held against them is a blot on our nation's reputation. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-are-men-and-women-who-are-willing-to-risk-60776/
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Durbin, Dick. "These are men and women who are willing to risk their lives in defense of their country. And the fact that their orientation - sexual orientation's been held against them is a blot on our nation's reputation." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-are-men-and-women-who-are-willing-to-risk-60776/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"These are men and women who are willing to risk their lives in defense of their country. And the fact that their orientation - sexual orientation's been held against them is a blot on our nation's reputation." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-are-men-and-women-who-are-willing-to-risk-60776/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.


