"These girls come; they last one season; they're completely used up and dried out and sent back home. That's not how to make a life. I want a girl to come in knowing full well what she's getting into and being able to deal and make decisions that will create a career"
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The subtext is a critique of an industry that rewards pliability and punishes agency. When she says “sent back home,” she’s pointing at how the system imports aspiration, extracts value, then discards the person once the look stops selling. It’s also a warning about the emotional whiplash: a sudden elevation into a rarefied world followed by an abrupt return with little to show but burnout. The line “That’s not how to make a life” lands like a moral boundary, not a motivational poster.
Alt’s real target, though, isn’t only the industry; it’s the lack of informed consent around entry into it. “Knowing full well what she’s getting into” reads like a demand for transparency: understand the contracts, the power dynamics, the shelf life, the pressure to say yes. “Being able to deal and make decisions” is the careerist pivot, replacing fairy-tale discovery with strategy. In a culture that sells modeling as effortless luck, she’s insisting it’s labor - and survival requires literacy, not just a face.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Alt, Carol. (2026, January 17). These girls come; they last one season; they're completely used up and dried out and sent back home. That's not how to make a life. I want a girl to come in knowing full well what she's getting into and being able to deal and make decisions that will create a career. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-girls-come-they-last-one-season-theyre-39330/
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Alt, Carol. "These girls come; they last one season; they're completely used up and dried out and sent back home. That's not how to make a life. I want a girl to come in knowing full well what she's getting into and being able to deal and make decisions that will create a career." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-girls-come-they-last-one-season-theyre-39330/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"These girls come; they last one season; they're completely used up and dried out and sent back home. That's not how to make a life. I want a girl to come in knowing full well what she's getting into and being able to deal and make decisions that will create a career." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-girls-come-they-last-one-season-theyre-39330/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.



