"These guys who keep on playing but aren't winning, you've got to sit them down and let them figure it out and perform a little gut-check on themselves"
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The key move is “sit them down.” That’s leadership by interruption. Not punishment, not exile, but a forced pause that breaks the athlete’s favorite coping mechanism: keep competing so you never have to name what’s wrong. Stewart understands that constant motion can be denial with a scorecard. You can hide inside routines, travel, practice reps, even “experience,” all while avoiding the harder work of recalibrating your mind, your swing, your preparation, your hunger.
Then he lands the emotional punch: “perform a little gut-check on themselves.” It’s not therapy-speak; it’s the language of self-respect and embarrassment, the private reckoning athletes fear because it threatens their identity. The subtext is that losing isn’t just a performance issue; it’s a character test. If you’re not winning, are you actually adapting-or just enduring?
Coming from Stewart, a golfer who carried swagger and seriousness in equal measure, it reads like a warning against complacency in a sport that can let you coast on reputation. Winning, he implies, isn’t owed to effort. It’s rented, and the rent is due every week.
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Stewart, Payne. (2026, January 17). These guys who keep on playing but aren't winning, you've got to sit them down and let them figure it out and perform a little gut-check on themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-guys-who-keep-on-playing-but-arent-winning-57580/
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Stewart, Payne. "These guys who keep on playing but aren't winning, you've got to sit them down and let them figure it out and perform a little gut-check on themselves." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-guys-who-keep-on-playing-but-arent-winning-57580/.
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"These guys who keep on playing but aren't winning, you've got to sit them down and let them figure it out and perform a little gut-check on themselves." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-guys-who-keep-on-playing-but-arent-winning-57580/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.





