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Aging & Wisdom Quote by Al Jarreau

"These songs are old friends I have entertained myself with when I'm washing the dishes, driving to the store and walking down the aisles. The ones that you sing when you're driving in the car and as a singer you always go back to them"

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Jarreau makes nostalgia feel less like a museum and more like muscle memory. He’s not talking about “standards” as sacred texts; he’s talking about songs as practical companions, the way a certain chorus can keep you moving through the dull choreography of daily life. Washing dishes, driving to the store, walking the aisles: he deliberately picks unglamorous scenes, then drops music right into them, arguing that the real test of a song isn’t whether critics canonize it, but whether it keeps showing up when nobody’s watching.

The phrase “old friends” does sly work. Friends don’t demand reverence; they tolerate repetition. You can call them at odd hours. That’s Jarreau’s subtext about craft: great songs are durable enough to be revisited without collapsing into cliché. They’re built to be lived with, not just performed at. When he says “the ones that you sing when you’re driving,” he’s pointing at a private, slightly embarrassing joy - the unfiltered version of listening, where you’re not curating taste, you’re just feeling.

Then comes the pivot: “as a singer you always go back to them.” It’s a quiet admission that professional artistry doesn’t erase the amateur impulse; it refines it. Jarreau, a virtuoso who could bend jazz, pop, and R&B into his own dialect, frames returning to familiar songs not as creative stagnation but as recalibration. In a culture obsessed with the new, he’s defending the loop: the repertoire as a home base, the everyday as the truest stage.

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Jarreau, Al. (2026, January 16). These songs are old friends I have entertained myself with when I'm washing the dishes, driving to the store and walking down the aisles. The ones that you sing when you're driving in the car and as a singer you always go back to them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-songs-are-old-friends-i-have-entertained-114421/

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Jarreau, Al. "These songs are old friends I have entertained myself with when I'm washing the dishes, driving to the store and walking down the aisles. The ones that you sing when you're driving in the car and as a singer you always go back to them." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-songs-are-old-friends-i-have-entertained-114421/.

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"These songs are old friends I have entertained myself with when I'm washing the dishes, driving to the store and walking down the aisles. The ones that you sing when you're driving in the car and as a singer you always go back to them." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-songs-are-old-friends-i-have-entertained-114421/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.

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Al Jarreau (March 12, 1940 - February 12, 2017) was a Musician from USA.

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