"These women who were around me were never complaining. They were really focused on how to create and rescue normal life, giving hope and being positive"
About this Quote
Coming from a director whose films circle the Bosnian war and its afterlives, the line sits inside a larger cultural argument about what we choose to memorialize. War stories traditionally gravitate toward speeches, battles, and decisive men. Žbanić shifts the camera to maintenance: improvising meals, steadying children, stitching routines back together in the middle of rupture. “Rescue normal life” is an almost paradoxical phrase, and that’s the point; normalcy becomes the endangered species, the thing that needs extraction and protection.
The subtext is political without sounding like it. “Hope” and “being positive” aren’t motivational slogans here; they’re infrastructure. She’s naming a kind of labor that rarely makes it into official histories because it doesn’t look like power, even though it’s what makes survival legible. If there’s an edge to the admiration, it’s this: resilience isn’t a personality trait. It’s a collective practice, often carried by women, often unpaid, and too easily taken for granted once the crisis stops being news.
Quote Details
| Topic | Hope |
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| Source | Interview, Seventh Row (January 27, 2021), on women’s resilience as inspiration for Aida |
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Žbanić, Jasmila. (2026, February 15). These women who were around me were never complaining. They were really focused on how to create and rescue normal life, giving hope and being positive. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-women-who-were-around-me-were-never-185403/
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Žbanić, Jasmila. "These women who were around me were never complaining. They were really focused on how to create and rescue normal life, giving hope and being positive." FixQuotes. February 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-women-who-were-around-me-were-never-185403/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"These women who were around me were never complaining. They were really focused on how to create and rescue normal life, giving hope and being positive." FixQuotes, 15 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-women-who-were-around-me-were-never-185403/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.




