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Parenting & Family Quote by Elizabeth II

"These wretched babies don't come until they are ready"

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Even in a palace, nature keeps its own schedule - and Elizabeth II knew the power of letting the myth of control deflate with a pinprick. “These wretched babies don’t come until they are ready” lands because it’s a monarch speaking like any exhausted, slightly exasperated relative in a waiting room. The adjective “wretched” is the sly pivot: not cruelty, but a flash of taboo candor from someone trained to sand down every public edge. It’s comedy built from mismatch, the sovereign voice briefly slipping into the register of the ordinary.

The line’s intent is tactical as much as emotional. It’s a pressure valve for an institution obsessed with timing, optics, and orderly succession. Royal life runs on calendars and choreography; childbirth refuses the script. By blaming the babies - mischievously anthropomorphizing them as stubborn little agents - she sidesteps the medical reality and the personal anxiety, turning uncertainty into a story you can laugh at. That’s a form of leadership, too: managing the temperature of the room without making the room about your feelings.

The subtext is also a small assertion of boundaries. Elizabeth’s public persona was discipline, restraint, composure. Here she permits herself one unvarnished truth: waiting is miserable, even when you’re waiting behind velvet ropes. In a culture that sells royalty as destiny made flesh, the quote re-centers the body - unpredictable, unsentimental, unruled - and reminds you that the crown, for all its ceremony, can’t negotiate with biology.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
II, Elizabeth. (2026, January 18). These wretched babies don't come until they are ready. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-wretched-babies-dont-come-until-they-are-15461/

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II, Elizabeth. "These wretched babies don't come until they are ready." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-wretched-babies-dont-come-until-they-are-15461/.

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"These wretched babies don't come until they are ready." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/these-wretched-babies-dont-come-until-they-are-15461/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Elizabeth II (April 21, 1926 - September 8, 2022) was a Royalty from United Kingdom.

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