"They always come back when they learn that not every woman's gonna treat them this good"
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The subtext is both tender and unsparing. “Not every woman’s gonna treat them this good” isn’t just a compliment to herself; it’s a critique of entitlement. The “them” is telling: it generalizes men into a pattern, less a single villain than a recurring type. Stone isn’t romanticizing the return, either. “They always come back” can read like vindication, but it also hints at exhaustion - the way people circle back when ego meets consequence, when novelty wears off and care suddenly looks expensive.
As a musician steeped in soul and R&B’s tradition of emotional realism, Stone uses conversational phrasing to make it feel like a friend’s late-night truth, not a thesis. There’s a cultural context here too: Black women artists have long been asked to narrate patience and forgiveness. Stone sidesteps that ask. She acknowledges her generosity, but she refuses to mistake it for a guarantee of loyalty. The power is in the boundary: your absence may be your education, but my goodness is not a lifetime subscription.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stone, Angie. (2026, January 17). They always come back when they learn that not every woman's gonna treat them this good. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-always-come-back-when-they-learn-that-not-36983/
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Stone, Angie. "They always come back when they learn that not every woman's gonna treat them this good." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-always-come-back-when-they-learn-that-not-36983/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"They always come back when they learn that not every woman's gonna treat them this good." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-always-come-back-when-they-learn-that-not-36983/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








