"They are no longer going to serve you well. You have to commit. I think the biggest word is commit. I hear women say to me all the time, and men - I want to, I want to"
About this Quote
The repetition does the heavy lifting. “You have to commit. I think the biggest word is commit.” It’s less argument than incantation, the way a TV personality pins an audience to a single actionable verb. Somers, whose public persona fused sitcom familiarity with entrepreneurial wellness evangelism, knows that commitment is the hinge between entertainment and conversion. You can’t sell a lifestyle to someone who stays in the “maybe” zone.
Then she slips in the real target: the endless preface. “I want to, I want to” is a quote within the quote - a mimicry of stalled desire that’s almost affectionate, almost scolding. She’s not diagnosing a moral failure; she’s naming a cultural habit where intention substitutes for change. By calling out both “women… and men,” she widens the net, but the subtext still nods to the gendered pressure her audience often feels: be decisive, be improving, don’t waste time.
In context, this reads like Somers at peak brand: motivational toughness wrapped in approachable cadence. The intent is to convert longing into action by making indecision feel not just unproductive, but obsolete.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Somers, Suzanne. (2026, January 17). They are no longer going to serve you well. You have to commit. I think the biggest word is commit. I hear women say to me all the time, and men - I want to, I want to. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-are-no-longer-going-to-serve-you-well-you-71547/
Chicago Style
Somers, Suzanne. "They are no longer going to serve you well. You have to commit. I think the biggest word is commit. I hear women say to me all the time, and men - I want to, I want to." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-are-no-longer-going-to-serve-you-well-you-71547/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"They are no longer going to serve you well. You have to commit. I think the biggest word is commit. I hear women say to me all the time, and men - I want to, I want to." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-are-no-longer-going-to-serve-you-well-you-71547/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







