"They don't ask much of you. They only want you to hate the things you love and to love the things you despise"
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Pasternak understood, viscerally, how totalitarian systems don’t settle for controlling speech; they want to colonize the inner life, where loyalties form before you can rationalize them away. The line captures a Soviet-era logic in which art, religion, private memory, even the simple pleasure of an unsanctioned book or a forbidden friendship, becomes suspicious because it proves you still have a self that isn’t state-issued. If they can make you betray your own instincts, they don’t need to watch you as closely; you start policing yourself.
The subtext is psychological: the state’s ideal citizen isn’t merely compliant, but inverted. Loving what you “despise” suggests a coerced enthusiasm, the public smile that becomes a survival tactic and eventually a habit. Hating what you “love” is darker: a preemptive self-mutilation, severing attachments before they can be used against you. In Pasternak’s world, the ultimate victory of propaganda isn’t persuasion. It’s the humiliation of watching yourself pretend, and realizing the pretense is starting to take.
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Pasternak, Boris. (2026, January 15). They don't ask much of you. They only want you to hate the things you love and to love the things you despise. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-dont-ask-much-of-you-they-only-want-you-to-7171/
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Pasternak, Boris. "They don't ask much of you. They only want you to hate the things you love and to love the things you despise." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-dont-ask-much-of-you-they-only-want-you-to-7171/.
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"They don't ask much of you. They only want you to hate the things you love and to love the things you despise." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-dont-ask-much-of-you-they-only-want-you-to-7171/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









