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Parenting & Family Quote by Albert Finney

"They have to exist or not in their own right. I mean, with kids, you don't say, 'Which is your favourite,' or 'Which did you enjoy bringing up the best?'"

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Finney’s line dodges the cozy sentimental trap people set for artists: rank your work, pick a winner, turn a lifetime of choices into a listicle. He refuses the premise with a parent’s analogy that’s almost aggressively ordinary. Kids are not “content,” and by extension neither are films, roles, or performances. They “exist or not in their own right” - a blunt little phrase that strips away the consumer habit of treating art as a product to be graded, compared, and optimized.

The intent is defensive but not precious. Finney isn’t claiming every role is equally good; he’s insisting the relationship between maker and made isn’t a taste-test. Asking an actor for a favorite assumes a tidy narrative of progress and self-curation: the “best” performance, the “defining” part, the one that proves who they really are. Finney rejects that autobiographical framing. A role, like a child, becomes separate the moment it’s out in the world; it can be loved without being ranked, and it can disappoint without being disowned.

There’s also a quiet rebuke to interview culture itself. The question “Which is your favourite?” is a demand for a sound bite that collapses complexity into a marketable opinion. Finney’s answer insists on messier truth: creative work is situational, made under specific pressures, with different collaborators, at different ages. Treating it like a horse race flatters the audience’s need for hierarchy more than it reveals anything about the craft.

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Finney, Albert. (2026, January 17). They have to exist or not in their own right. I mean, with kids, you don't say, 'Which is your favourite,' or 'Which did you enjoy bringing up the best?'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-have-to-exist-or-not-in-their-own-right-i-44940/

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Finney, Albert. "They have to exist or not in their own right. I mean, with kids, you don't say, 'Which is your favourite,' or 'Which did you enjoy bringing up the best?'." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-have-to-exist-or-not-in-their-own-right-i-44940/.

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"They have to exist or not in their own right. I mean, with kids, you don't say, 'Which is your favourite,' or 'Which did you enjoy bringing up the best?'." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-have-to-exist-or-not-in-their-own-right-i-44940/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Albert Finney (born May 9, 1936) is a Actor from United Kingdom.

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