"They have to exist or not in their own right. I mean, with kids, you don't say, 'Which is your favourite,' or 'Which did you enjoy bringing up the best?'"
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The intent is defensive but not precious. Finney isn’t claiming every role is equally good; he’s insisting the relationship between maker and made isn’t a taste-test. Asking an actor for a favorite assumes a tidy narrative of progress and self-curation: the “best” performance, the “defining” part, the one that proves who they really are. Finney rejects that autobiographical framing. A role, like a child, becomes separate the moment it’s out in the world; it can be loved without being ranked, and it can disappoint without being disowned.
There’s also a quiet rebuke to interview culture itself. The question “Which is your favourite?” is a demand for a sound bite that collapses complexity into a marketable opinion. Finney’s answer insists on messier truth: creative work is situational, made under specific pressures, with different collaborators, at different ages. Treating it like a horse race flatters the audience’s need for hierarchy more than it reveals anything about the craft.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Finney, Albert. (2026, January 17). They have to exist or not in their own right. I mean, with kids, you don't say, 'Which is your favourite,' or 'Which did you enjoy bringing up the best?'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-have-to-exist-or-not-in-their-own-right-i-44940/
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Finney, Albert. "They have to exist or not in their own right. I mean, with kids, you don't say, 'Which is your favourite,' or 'Which did you enjoy bringing up the best?'." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-have-to-exist-or-not-in-their-own-right-i-44940/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"They have to exist or not in their own right. I mean, with kids, you don't say, 'Which is your favourite,' or 'Which did you enjoy bringing up the best?'." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-have-to-exist-or-not-in-their-own-right-i-44940/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.





