"They might have a long way to go before truly accepting gay people into their lives, but they have accepted the show into their living rooms each and every week"
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The phrasing does a lot of work. “They might have a long way to go” concedes the reality of prejudice without staging a fight with the audience. It’s strategic softness, a way of keeping the door open rather than slamming it with moral superiority. Then comes the twist: “but they have accepted the show into their living rooms.” That “but” is the hinge between public ideology and private consumption. People can maintain the identity of “not comfortable with gay people” while still enjoying gayness as entertainment, because television frames it as safe, curated, and non-demanding.
Context matters here: Hayes, as a face of Will & Grace-era mainstreaming, is describing the early-2000s dynamic when gay visibility expanded faster than many viewers’ stated beliefs. The subtext is that representation isn’t just symbolic; it’s a wedge. Once someone laughs with a character weekly, disgust becomes harder to sustain without friction. Hayes is betting on familiarity as politics-by-remote-control: not dramatic conversion, but slow erosion of the “other.”
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hayes, Sean. (2026, January 16). They might have a long way to go before truly accepting gay people into their lives, but they have accepted the show into their living rooms each and every week. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-might-have-a-long-way-to-go-before-truly-132550/
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Hayes, Sean. "They might have a long way to go before truly accepting gay people into their lives, but they have accepted the show into their living rooms each and every week." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-might-have-a-long-way-to-go-before-truly-132550/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"They might have a long way to go before truly accepting gay people into their lives, but they have accepted the show into their living rooms each and every week." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-might-have-a-long-way-to-go-before-truly-132550/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

