"They offered me millions and millions and millions of dollars to write books about Cary. That was between us. That was private. I'll always love him"
About this Quote
The line "That was between us. That was private" works because it’s both boundary and rebuke. It suggests an entertainment ecosystem that treats intimacy as intellectual property, especially when the other half of the story is a famous man. Cary is Cary Grant, and the context matters: Grant’s image was built on controlled elegance, while their marriage was tabloid fodder and later surrounded by darker, more complicated stories. Cannon’s phrasing protects a shared interior life from being flattened into content, even as she acknowledges the market’s appetite for it.
There’s also a sly power play. By refusing to "write books", she denies outsiders the catharsis of a definitive tell-all while still reminding us she could have written one. She keeps authorship over the narrative by withholding it. "I'll always love him" lands as a final insistence that whatever happened between them cannot be reduced to a deal, a headline, or a postscript. It’s not saintly; it’s strategic tenderness, choosing emotional truth over profitable disclosure.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cannon, Dyan. (2026, January 17). They offered me millions and millions and millions of dollars to write books about Cary. That was between us. That was private. I'll always love him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-offered-me-millions-and-millions-and-58679/
Chicago Style
Cannon, Dyan. "They offered me millions and millions and millions of dollars to write books about Cary. That was between us. That was private. I'll always love him." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-offered-me-millions-and-millions-and-58679/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"They offered me millions and millions and millions of dollars to write books about Cary. That was between us. That was private. I'll always love him." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-offered-me-millions-and-millions-and-58679/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.




