Creativity Quote by Conor Oberst

Oberst turns grief into landscaping, and the move is as tender as it is evasive. “They say” opens with that classic Bright Eyes dodge: the advice arrives pre-packaged as folk wisdom, already suspect, already secondhand. It’s not confession yet; it’s the moment before confession, when you hide behind what “people” believe so you don’t have to admit what you need.

The line hinges on two places that sound similar but don’t feel the same. A graveyard is sadness institutionalized: orderly, labeled, meant to be visited but also contained. A garden is sadness given a job. You don’t just store pain there; you tend it. The shock is how close those options sit to each other, separated by intent more than terrain. Either way, you’re burying something. The question is whether you’re trying to forget it or transform it.

“Waits for the spring” and “wake from its sleep” borrow the language of seasons to smuggle in a promise: what’s buried can return as life, not as haunting. That’s the emotional engine of the image - grief as compost, not a coffin. But Oberst’s phrasing keeps it uneasy. Spring doesn’t resurrect what you lost; it just makes the world green again, indifferent and gorgeous. The subtext is the fear that recovery is less redemption than relapse into ordinary living.

Contextually, this sits in Oberst’s long-running obsession with how we narrate suffering: the tug between romanticizing it and surviving it. He offers a metaphor that sounds like hope, while quietly admitting the impulse underneath it: to make sadness disappear somewhere beautiful enough that it won’t ask for your attention every day.