"They sin who tell us Love can die: with Life all other passions fly, all others are but vanity"
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The couplet’s mechanics make the argument feel inevitable. “Die” is answered by “fly”: love doesn’t end, the poem insists, because the things that do end are downgraded to “passions,” temporary gusts that scatter when “Life” is over. The subtext is defensive. Southey is writing in an age of Romantic intensity but also Romantic disillusion, when desire is celebrated and then quickly exposed as self-dramatizing. So he draws a hard boundary: the real thing isn’t the fevered rush; it’s whatever outlasts mortality. That’s less a description of actual human behavior than a strategy for rescuing love from the marketplace of feelings.
“All others are but vanity” seals the bargain with a biblical cadence (Ecclesiastes is hovering in the background). It’s an attempt to stabilize a turbulent emotional era by declaring that love isn’t just passion, but meaning itself. The intent is consolatory, but also coercive: if love can’t die, then the bereaved, the jilted, the bored are all asked to reinterpret their experience as lesser, mistaken, merely vain.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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| Source | Verified source: The Curse of Kehama (Robert Southey, 1810)
Evidence: They sin who tell us love can die. With life all other passions fly, All others are but vanity. In Heaven Ambition cannot dwell, Nor Avarice in the vaults of Hell; Earthly these passions of the Earth, They perish where they have their birth; But Love is indestructible. Its holy flame for ever burneth, From Heaven it came, to Heaven returneth; Too oft on Earth a troubled guest, At times deceiv’d, at times opprest, It here is tried and purified, Then hath in Heaven its perfect rest: It soweth here with toil and care, But the harvest-time of Love is there. (Canto X (page 100 in the scanned edition), stanza begins after “They sin who tell us…”). Primary source: Robert Southey’s narrative poem/epic “The Curse of Kehama”. The lines you quoted appear in Canto X (often cited as “Canto X, stanza 10”), and are frequently reprinted elsewhere with minor punctuation/capitalization changes. A later secondary reprint showing the same attribution appears in The New Monthly Magazine (1832) within Felicia Hemans’s “The Home of Love,” but that is not the original publication. Other candidates (1) Selected Poems of Robert Southey (Robert Southey, 1888) compilation95.0% Robert Southey Sidney Robert Thompson. Her mother's milk was stirring . With straining neck and earnest eye She stret... |
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"They sin who tell us Love can die: with Life all other passions fly, all others are but vanity." FixQuotes, 21 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-sin-who-tell-us-love-can-die-with-life-all-123529/. Accessed 28 Mar. 2026.
















