"They tell me that it will be hard to find a man strong enough to love my own strength and independence, and not worry about being Mr. Diana Ross, but I disagree. I know absolutely that that man is somewhere out there"
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The masterstroke is the phrase “Mr. Diana Ross.” It’s funny, a little cutting, and it lands because it names the unspoken rule: a man is supposed to remain the headline, even when the woman is the star. In three words, Ross spotlights the ego-tax demanded of men dating famous, formidable women - and how that tax often gets disguised as a preference for “traditional” dynamics. She doesn’t apologize for her stature; she insists the right partner will have enough selfhood not to compete with hers.
Then she pivots: “but I disagree.” Not defensive, not combative - simply final. The confidence is the point. “I know absolutely” reads like self-protection forged into conviction, the kind of certainty you adopt when the world keeps trying to negotiate you down.
Context matters: Ross came up in an industry that marketed women as both glamorous and manageable. Here she refuses “manageable.” The quote isn’t just about romance; it’s about authorship. She’s rewriting the script where success makes a woman unlovable, and replacing it with a cleaner idea: the problem isn’t her strength. It’s anyone who needs her to shrink.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ross, Diana. (2026, January 17). They tell me that it will be hard to find a man strong enough to love my own strength and independence, and not worry about being Mr. Diana Ross, but I disagree. I know absolutely that that man is somewhere out there. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-tell-me-that-it-will-be-hard-to-find-a-man-52742/
Chicago Style
Ross, Diana. "They tell me that it will be hard to find a man strong enough to love my own strength and independence, and not worry about being Mr. Diana Ross, but I disagree. I know absolutely that that man is somewhere out there." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-tell-me-that-it-will-be-hard-to-find-a-man-52742/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"They tell me that it will be hard to find a man strong enough to love my own strength and independence, and not worry about being Mr. Diana Ross, but I disagree. I know absolutely that that man is somewhere out there." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-tell-me-that-it-will-be-hard-to-find-a-man-52742/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











