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Love Quote by Diana Ross

"They tell me that it will be hard to find a man strong enough to love my own strength and independence, and not worry about being Mr. Diana Ross, but I disagree. I know absolutely that that man is somewhere out there"

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Ross is doing something deceptively radical here: treating the fear of a powerful woman not as her burden to manage, but as other people’s small imagination. The line opens with “They tell me,” a familiar chorus of caution aimed at women who dare to be self-contained. It’s social “wisdom” dressed up as concern: if you’re too accomplished, too independent, you’ll “scare men off.” Ross turns that warning into a mirror, exposing how the culture frames male insecurity as female responsibility.

The masterstroke is the phrase “Mr. Diana Ross.” It’s funny, a little cutting, and it lands because it names the unspoken rule: a man is supposed to remain the headline, even when the woman is the star. In three words, Ross spotlights the ego-tax demanded of men dating famous, formidable women - and how that tax often gets disguised as a preference for “traditional” dynamics. She doesn’t apologize for her stature; she insists the right partner will have enough selfhood not to compete with hers.

Then she pivots: “but I disagree.” Not defensive, not combative - simply final. The confidence is the point. “I know absolutely” reads like self-protection forged into conviction, the kind of certainty you adopt when the world keeps trying to negotiate you down.

Context matters: Ross came up in an industry that marketed women as both glamorous and manageable. Here she refuses “manageable.” The quote isn’t just about romance; it’s about authorship. She’s rewriting the script where success makes a woman unlovable, and replacing it with a cleaner idea: the problem isn’t her strength. It’s anyone who needs her to shrink.

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Diana Ross (born March 26, 1944) is a Actress from USA.

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