"They that will not be counseled, cannot be helped. If you do not hear reason she will rap you on the knuckles"
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The intent is moral but not sanctimonious. “They that will not be counseled” frames the problem as willful, not ignorant. You’re not lacking information; you’re refusing it. That’s a subtle indictment of pride and self-mythology, the kind Fowler would have watched up close in politics, show business, and newsrooms where bad decisions are often defended as personality. The sentence “cannot be helped” is colder than it looks: it suggests a limit to empathy, to institutions, even to friendship. Help requires consent.
Contextually, Fowler wrote in an era that prized the brisk epigram and distrusted grand theories. The quote carries that early-20th-century American pragmatism: reason isn’t a debate you win; it’s gravity. Ignore it, and the lesson arrives on schedule, tapping the same tender spot every time.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fowler, Gene. (2026, January 16). They that will not be counseled, cannot be helped. If you do not hear reason she will rap you on the knuckles. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-that-will-not-be-counseled-cannot-be-helped-117463/
Chicago Style
Fowler, Gene. "They that will not be counseled, cannot be helped. If you do not hear reason she will rap you on the knuckles." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-that-will-not-be-counseled-cannot-be-helped-117463/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"They that will not be counseled, cannot be helped. If you do not hear reason she will rap you on the knuckles." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-that-will-not-be-counseled-cannot-be-helped-117463/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






