"They used to but not any more. You kind of get used to it - you accept it is part of your job - if you're famous and you want this life, you have got to accept this part of it as well"
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"You kind of get used to it" is doing double duty. On the surface it’s pragmatic, almost shruggy. Underneath, it’s a quiet admission that the abnormal has become routine: scrutiny, intrusion, people treating your life as public property. The language is casual because the experience has been made ordinary through repetition. That’s the point and the tragedy.
Then comes the moral contract: "you accept it is part of your job". She frames celebrity not as identity but as labor, with unpleasant workplace hazards. It’s a musician talking like a union rep, except the hazard isn’t bad hours; it’s being watched. The kicker is the conditional: "if you're famous and you want this life". She’s anticipating the classic rebuttal - you chose this - and neutralizing it before it lands. It reads less like self-pity than preemptive self-defense.
Context matters: Church became famous as a child, in a British tabloid ecosystem that treated young women as open season. Her line isn’t endorsement; it’s a report from inside the machine, where "acceptance" often means learning to carry what shouldn’t be required in the first place.
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Church, Charlotte. (2026, January 17). They used to but not any more. You kind of get used to it - you accept it is part of your job - if you're famous and you want this life, you have got to accept this part of it as well. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-used-to-but-not-any-more-you-kind-of-get-38926/
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Church, Charlotte. "They used to but not any more. You kind of get used to it - you accept it is part of your job - if you're famous and you want this life, you have got to accept this part of it as well." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-used-to-but-not-any-more-you-kind-of-get-38926/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"They used to but not any more. You kind of get used to it - you accept it is part of your job - if you're famous and you want this life, you have got to accept this part of it as well." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-used-to-but-not-any-more-you-kind-of-get-38926/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





