"They were doing a full back shot of me in a swimsuit and I thought, Oh my God, I have to be so brave. See, every woman hates herself from behind"
About this Quote
“I have to be so brave” is the pivot. Courage isn’t framed as walking a runway or building a brand; it’s surviving the camera’s judgment when it’s least flattering, least controllable, least aligned with the front-facing self we’ve been trained to curate. That makes the quote feel contemporary before its time: the back shot as an early metaphor for the unfiltered image, the one you don’t get to edit into compliance.
Then she drops the grenade: “every woman hates herself from behind.” It’s an exaggeration, and she knows it. The point isn’t statistical truth; it’s solidarity through overstatement, a confession that normalizes insecurity by making it collective. Subtext: the gaze has been so thoroughly internalized that disgust can feel like a default setting, not a reaction.
Coming from Crawford, the comment carries extra bite. When someone with her cultural authority admits fear of the lens, it exposes how impossible the standard is. If the icon needs bravery to exist in her own body, what chance did the rest of us ever have?
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Crawford, Cindy. (2026, January 17). They were doing a full back shot of me in a swimsuit and I thought, Oh my God, I have to be so brave. See, every woman hates herself from behind. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-were-doing-a-full-back-shot-of-me-in-a-53294/
Chicago Style
Crawford, Cindy. "They were doing a full back shot of me in a swimsuit and I thought, Oh my God, I have to be so brave. See, every woman hates herself from behind." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-were-doing-a-full-back-shot-of-me-in-a-53294/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"They were doing a full back shot of me in a swimsuit and I thought, Oh my God, I have to be so brave. See, every woman hates herself from behind." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-were-doing-a-full-back-shot-of-me-in-a-53294/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.


