"They weren't interested in entertainment. They were tough. I learned one trick, which was to be quieter than they were until they had to look at you. It took a lot of agressiveness"
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The “one trick” is deliciously paradoxical: be quieter than they are until they have to look at you. It’s a strategy of controlled deprivation. Instead of begging for attention, she withholds it, creating a vacuum the room eventually feels compelled to fill. That’s not meekness; it’s domination by restraint. Holliday, whose screen persona often played “dumb blonde” with razor intelligence underneath, is sketching the same dynamic off-camera: the power move is to let others exhaust their bravado, then make your stillness impossible to ignore.
“It took a lot of agressiveness” (misspelling included) underlines the point: silence isn’t passive. For women in mid-century American entertainment, “aggressive” was a dangerous adjective, a trait punished even as it was required to survive. Holliday frames her method as a trick because that’s how you smuggle authority into spaces that deny you direct permission to claim it. The subtext is blunt: to be seen, she learned to engineer being watched.
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Holliday, Judy. (n.d.). They weren't interested in entertainment. They were tough. I learned one trick, which was to be quieter than they were until they had to look at you. It took a lot of agressiveness. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-werent-interested-in-entertainment-they-were-55522/
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Holliday, Judy. "They weren't interested in entertainment. They were tough. I learned one trick, which was to be quieter than they were until they had to look at you. It took a lot of agressiveness." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-werent-interested-in-entertainment-they-were-55522/.
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"They weren't interested in entertainment. They were tough. I learned one trick, which was to be quieter than they were until they had to look at you. It took a lot of agressiveness." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/they-werent-interested-in-entertainment-they-were-55522/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

