"They're definitely having their moment now because they know how to work the system, and I know I have to be that way, too, in order to succeed. But it's never been more frustrating for me"
About this Quote
The phrase “work the system” is doing double duty. On the surface it’s PR fluency, platform strategy, networking. Underneath, it’s an indictment: the system is something you manipulate or get manipulated by. McGowan’s “I know I have to be that way, too” reads like reluctant code-switching, a confession that authenticity alone won’t keep you employed. She’s describing a kind of emotional tax: becoming legible to power, even when you resent what power demands.
The last sentence is the tell. “Never been more frustrating” suggests a moment when the cultural winds have shifted - maybe the industry is finally listening, maybe the public is newly receptive - yet she’s still stuck with the same bargain: perform the right version of yourself to get traction. The intent isn’t to complain so much as to expose the trap: even in an era that markets “speaking out,” the cost of entry can still be playing along.
Quote Details
| Topic | Career |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
McGowan, Rose. (2026, January 16). They're definitely having their moment now because they know how to work the system, and I know I have to be that way, too, in order to succeed. But it's never been more frustrating for me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theyre-definitely-having-their-moment-now-because-106465/
Chicago Style
McGowan, Rose. "They're definitely having their moment now because they know how to work the system, and I know I have to be that way, too, in order to succeed. But it's never been more frustrating for me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theyre-definitely-having-their-moment-now-because-106465/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"They're definitely having their moment now because they know how to work the system, and I know I have to be that way, too, in order to succeed. But it's never been more frustrating for me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theyre-definitely-having-their-moment-now-because-106465/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.






