"They're guys who want to screw around all the time, which interests me not at all. God knows we've done that, been there, and we don't want to do that any more"
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The sharpest move is the switch from “they’re guys” to “we.” Bacall doesn’t pose as morally above the mess. “God knows we’ve done that” reads like a wink and a confession, a reminder that glamour, youth, and Hollywood’s permissive chaos were once part of her own mythology. Then comes the hard pivot: “been there.” Three words that turn experience into authority. She’s claiming seniority over the very men still auditioning for a life she’s already outgrown.
Context matters: Bacall’s star persona was built on sophistication, low-voiced control, and a refusal to play the wide-eyed ingenue for long. In an industry that monetizes women’s youth and tolerates men’s eternal boyhood, this sounds like boundary-setting as cultural critique. The subtext is practical and bracing: maturity isn’t a mood; it’s a choice, and she’s done subsidizing someone else’s refusal to grow up.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bacall, Lauren. (2026, January 16). They're guys who want to screw around all the time, which interests me not at all. God knows we've done that, been there, and we don't want to do that any more. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theyre-guys-who-want-to-screw-around-all-the-time-126628/
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Bacall, Lauren. "They're guys who want to screw around all the time, which interests me not at all. God knows we've done that, been there, and we don't want to do that any more." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theyre-guys-who-want-to-screw-around-all-the-time-126628/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"They're guys who want to screw around all the time, which interests me not at all. God knows we've done that, been there, and we don't want to do that any more." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theyre-guys-who-want-to-screw-around-all-the-time-126628/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.






