"They've said I'm gay, they've said everyone is gay. I personally don't believe in doing huge lawsuits about that stuff. Tom does. That's what he wants to do, that's what he's going to do. You do not tell Tom what to do. He is a force to be reckoned with"
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Then the quote pivots to Tom Cruise, and the tone changes from dismissive to wary admiration. “Tom does” isn’t just a marital aside; it’s a lesson in power. Kidman frames legal retaliation as an extension of Cruise’s brand: control, discipline, and the machinery to enforce boundaries. “You do not tell Tom what to do” reads like a warning delivered with a smile - the kind of sentence that signals both intimacy and distance. She knows him well enough to narrate his willpower, but also carefully avoids judging it.
The cultural context here is late-90s/early-2000s celebrity, when outing rumors were currency and lawsuits were a way for stars to reassert authorship over their own narratives. Kidman isn’t litigating sexuality; she’s describing fame as a contact sport, and Cruise as the heavyweight who insists the rules apply to him.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kidman, Nicole. (2026, January 16). They've said I'm gay, they've said everyone is gay. I personally don't believe in doing huge lawsuits about that stuff. Tom does. That's what he wants to do, that's what he's going to do. You do not tell Tom what to do. He is a force to be reckoned with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theyve-said-im-gay-theyve-said-everyone-is-gay-i-88779/
Chicago Style
Kidman, Nicole. "They've said I'm gay, they've said everyone is gay. I personally don't believe in doing huge lawsuits about that stuff. Tom does. That's what he wants to do, that's what he's going to do. You do not tell Tom what to do. He is a force to be reckoned with." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theyve-said-im-gay-theyve-said-everyone-is-gay-i-88779/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"They've said I'm gay, they've said everyone is gay. I personally don't believe in doing huge lawsuits about that stuff. Tom does. That's what he wants to do, that's what he's going to do. You do not tell Tom what to do. He is a force to be reckoned with." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/theyve-said-im-gay-theyve-said-everyone-is-gay-i-88779/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.





