"Things always look better when you haven't seen them"
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Nostalgia is a soft-focus filter, and Craig Bruce knows it. “Things always look better when you haven’t seen them” lands like a shrug, but it’s really a quiet indictment of the mind’s habit of upgrading reality in its absence. The line works because it flips the usual proverb about familiarity breeding contempt: here, distance breeds idealization. Not because the object improves, but because your perception gets to do the renovations without pesky building codes like facts.
The intent feels less inspirational than cautionary. Bruce isn’t praising optimism; he’s pointing at the con we run on ourselves. When you haven’t seen something - a hometown, an ex, a once-beloved job, even a political era - the messiest details evaporate. You remember the highlight reel, not the buffering. Absence becomes an editor, cutting awkward pauses, sanding down contradictions, turning the past into a clean narrative you can live with.
Subtext: the longing isn’t always for the thing. It’s for the version of you who existed before the thing got complicated. That’s why “better” here is slippery. Better for whom? Better for your story about it. Better for the ache that wants an object.
Contextually, the quote fits a late-20th/early-21st-century sensibility shaped by mobility, media, and reinvention: we’re constantly leaving, curating, revisiting through photos and posts, then confusing the archive with the experience. Bruce’s punchline stings because it’s mundane and true: seeing is believing, but not-seeing is fantasizing.
The intent feels less inspirational than cautionary. Bruce isn’t praising optimism; he’s pointing at the con we run on ourselves. When you haven’t seen something - a hometown, an ex, a once-beloved job, even a political era - the messiest details evaporate. You remember the highlight reel, not the buffering. Absence becomes an editor, cutting awkward pauses, sanding down contradictions, turning the past into a clean narrative you can live with.
Subtext: the longing isn’t always for the thing. It’s for the version of you who existed before the thing got complicated. That’s why “better” here is slippery. Better for whom? Better for your story about it. Better for the ache that wants an object.
Contextually, the quote fits a late-20th/early-21st-century sensibility shaped by mobility, media, and reinvention: we’re constantly leaving, curating, revisiting through photos and posts, then confusing the archive with the experience. Bruce’s punchline stings because it’s mundane and true: seeing is believing, but not-seeing is fantasizing.
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