"Things get bad for all of us, almost continually, and what we do under the constant stress reveals who/what we are"
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The intent is almost diagnostic. He’s not offering inspiration so much as an X-ray: if stress is constant, then character isn’t a performance you summon for big moments; it’s whatever leaks out of you when you’re tired, cornered, and unobserved. The subtext is a rebuke to self-mythology. People like to imagine they’re generous, brave, or principled in the abstract; Bukowski argues you are your coping mechanisms. Kindness becomes what you do when you’re depleted. Cruelty becomes what you justify when you’re broke. Integrity becomes whether you keep your promises when nobody’s keeping theirs.
Context matters: Bukowski wrote from inside American scarcity, not as a sociology seminar but as lived abrasion. His work is full of characters who don’t have the luxury of “finding themselves” because the bill is due. The bluntness is the point. It’s a moral claim smuggled into a shrug: constant stress doesn’t just reveal you; it manufactures you, then dares you to pretend otherwise.
Quote Details
| Topic | Stress |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bukowski, Charles. (2026, February 10). Things get bad for all of us, almost continually, and what we do under the constant stress reveals who/what we are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/things-get-bad-for-all-of-us-almost-continually-185195/
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Bukowski, Charles. "Things get bad for all of us, almost continually, and what we do under the constant stress reveals who/what we are." FixQuotes. February 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/things-get-bad-for-all-of-us-almost-continually-185195/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Things get bad for all of us, almost continually, and what we do under the constant stress reveals who/what we are." FixQuotes, 10 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/things-get-bad-for-all-of-us-almost-continually-185195/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





