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Marriage Quote by Adela Zamudio

"Thirsting in the desert of ambition, / in search of recognition he holds dear, / a man stands at the threshold of glory; / to his wife he says, “Stand back and stay here.”"

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Adela Zamudio stages ambition as a scene of exclusion. The image is stark: a man parched by desire, fixed on "recognition", arrives at the edge of "glory" and immediately turns to his wife with an order. Stand back. Stay here. The cruelty is not melodramatic; it is procedural. A woman is not merely denied the prize, she is instructed to remain outside the frame of achievement altogether.

What makes the lines bite is the way Zamudio fuses heroic language with domestic power. "Desert", "threshold", "glory" all belong to the vocabulary of epic striving, but the poem punctures that grandeur by showing what male ambition often requires: a silent female witness, close enough to support the ascent, far enough not to share in its public credit. Recognition is "held dear" by him, not earned collectively. That possessiveness matters. Glory here is not just success; it is status guarded like property.

The context sharpens the critique. Zamudio, a Bolivian writer and early feminist voice writing in the late 19th and early 20th centuries, understood how cultural prestige was built atop women's erasure. Her target is larger than one selfish husband. She is diagnosing a social script in which men cross into history while women are told to wait at the door.

The poem's intent is not only to condemn vanity. It exposes the gendered architecture of honor itself. Zamudio's insight feels modern because it names a pattern that still survives wherever partnership is privatized but achievement is masculinized.

Quote Details

TopicHusband & Wife
SourceThe Husband, translated by Laura Nagle, via The Los Angeles Review (quoted at A Collection of Poems, 2023) [translated]
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Zamudio, Adela. (2026, March 7). Thirsting in the desert of ambition, / in search of recognition he holds dear, / a man stands at the threshold of glory; / to his wife he says, “Stand back and stay here.”. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thirsting-in-the-desert-of-ambition-in-search-185713/

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Zamudio, Adela. "Thirsting in the desert of ambition, / in search of recognition he holds dear, / a man stands at the threshold of glory; / to his wife he says, “Stand back and stay here.”." FixQuotes. March 7, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thirsting-in-the-desert-of-ambition-in-search-185713/.

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"Thirsting in the desert of ambition, / in search of recognition he holds dear, / a man stands at the threshold of glory; / to his wife he says, “Stand back and stay here.”." FixQuotes, 7 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thirsting-in-the-desert-of-ambition-in-search-185713/. Accessed 7 Mar. 2026.

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Adela Zamudio

Adela Zamudio (October 11, 1854 - June 2, 1928) was a Poet from Bolivia.

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