"This friend of mine said he was surprised to find that - I don't think it's quite a majority - a bigger percentage of actors are introverts than extroverts. It was a big surprise to him. Now, I know me, and I'll do anything if I'm playing a character. Or anything that's true to the character, anyway. But in real life I'm a little more withdrawn"
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Weaver draws a clean border between two kinds of risk: the risk of being seen as yourself, and the risk of being seen as someone else. “I’ll do anything if I’m playing a character” reads like bravado until she qualifies it: “anything that’s true to the character.” That clause is the moral center. It reframes “anything” as craft, not exhibitionism. The subtext is that introversion doesn’t block performance; it can power it, because an introvert’s attention is often outwardly observant and inwardly calibrated. Character becomes permission: you can be fearless when the consequences land on the role, not on your private self.
The last line - “in real life I’m a little more withdrawn” - isn’t a confession of weakness; it’s an argument about where she spends her emotional budget. In a culture that treats charisma as authenticity, Weaver suggests the opposite: the most convincing public selves can come from people who guard their actual selves. The context here is an actor demystifying the job without deflating it, insisting that performance is not personality. It’s a disciplined form of hiding in plain sight.
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Weaver, Jackie. (2026, January 16). This friend of mine said he was surprised to find that - I don't think it's quite a majority - a bigger percentage of actors are introverts than extroverts. It was a big surprise to him. Now, I know me, and I'll do anything if I'm playing a character. Or anything that's true to the character, anyway. But in real life I'm a little more withdrawn. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-friend-of-mine-said-he-was-surprised-to-find-135624/
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Weaver, Jackie. "This friend of mine said he was surprised to find that - I don't think it's quite a majority - a bigger percentage of actors are introverts than extroverts. It was a big surprise to him. Now, I know me, and I'll do anything if I'm playing a character. Or anything that's true to the character, anyway. But in real life I'm a little more withdrawn." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-friend-of-mine-said-he-was-surprised-to-find-135624/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"This friend of mine said he was surprised to find that - I don't think it's quite a majority - a bigger percentage of actors are introverts than extroverts. It was a big surprise to him. Now, I know me, and I'll do anything if I'm playing a character. Or anything that's true to the character, anyway. But in real life I'm a little more withdrawn." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-friend-of-mine-said-he-was-surprised-to-find-135624/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.




