"This idea of selfishness as a virtue, as opposed to generosity: That, to me, is unnatural"
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Calling it “unnatural” is the sneaky power move. She’s not invoking etiquette or religion; she’s appealing to something older and more bodily: humans as social animals whose survival has always depended on mutual care. “To me” keeps it personal, but it also signals lived experience - the kind an actor accumulates after decades of watching fame, money, and ambition reward certain kinds of extraction. It’s less sermon than field report.
The subtext is also a critique of self-help culture and market logic, both of which love to sell boundaries and “self-care” as permission slips to stop being accountable to anyone else. Lange draws a line between protecting yourself and worshipping yourself. Coming from an actress - a profession built on collaboration, ensemble labor, and vulnerability as a commodity - the statement reads as a defense of interdependence. It insists that generosity isn’t performative softness; it’s the human baseline that our myths of ruthless individualism keep trying to edit out.
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Lange, Jessica. (2026, January 16). This idea of selfishness as a virtue, as opposed to generosity: That, to me, is unnatural. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-idea-of-selfishness-as-a-virtue-as-opposed-83155/
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Lange, Jessica. "This idea of selfishness as a virtue, as opposed to generosity: That, to me, is unnatural." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-idea-of-selfishness-as-a-virtue-as-opposed-83155/.
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"This idea of selfishness as a virtue, as opposed to generosity: That, to me, is unnatural." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-idea-of-selfishness-as-a-virtue-as-opposed-83155/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.












