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Daily Inspiration Quote by Jessica Lange

"This idea of selfishness as a virtue, as opposed to generosity: That, to me, is unnatural"

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Lange’s line lands like a quiet rebuke to an era that keeps trying to rebrand self-interest as moral clarity. She doesn’t argue that people should never want things; she targets the cultural sales pitch that calls it “virtue” and expects applause. The phrasing matters: “This idea” frames selfishness not as an impulse but as an ideology, something taught, circulated, defended. Then she sets up a stark binary - “as opposed to generosity” - forcing the listener to notice the substitution at work. If selfishness is upgraded, generosity gets downgraded into naivete.

Calling it “unnatural” is the sneaky power move. She’s not invoking etiquette or religion; she’s appealing to something older and more bodily: humans as social animals whose survival has always depended on mutual care. “To me” keeps it personal, but it also signals lived experience - the kind an actor accumulates after decades of watching fame, money, and ambition reward certain kinds of extraction. It’s less sermon than field report.

The subtext is also a critique of self-help culture and market logic, both of which love to sell boundaries and “self-care” as permission slips to stop being accountable to anyone else. Lange draws a line between protecting yourself and worshipping yourself. Coming from an actress - a profession built on collaboration, ensemble labor, and vulnerability as a commodity - the statement reads as a defense of interdependence. It insists that generosity isn’t performative softness; it’s the human baseline that our myths of ruthless individualism keep trying to edit out.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lange, Jessica. (2026, January 16). This idea of selfishness as a virtue, as opposed to generosity: That, to me, is unnatural. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-idea-of-selfishness-as-a-virtue-as-opposed-83155/

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Lange, Jessica. "This idea of selfishness as a virtue, as opposed to generosity: That, to me, is unnatural." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-idea-of-selfishness-as-a-virtue-as-opposed-83155/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"This idea of selfishness as a virtue, as opposed to generosity: That, to me, is unnatural." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-idea-of-selfishness-as-a-virtue-as-opposed-83155/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Jessica Lange

Jessica Lange (born April 20, 1949) is a Actress from USA.

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