"This is a place where you can go, that you can feel safe and look inside yourself and discover yourself"
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The repetition of “you can” is a kind of permission slip. It suggests that the biggest barrier isn’t logistics but shame: people need to be told they’re allowed to seek care, allowed to be fragile, allowed to step out of their roles. Coming from a First Lady, that permission carries unusual force. Ford had already made headlines by speaking candidly about her breast cancer, painkiller dependence, and alcoholism; she turned personal disclosure into a public argument that privacy and silence weren’t virtues if they kept people sick.
“Feel safe” is the emotional cornerstone, but it’s also political. Safety here implies protection from judgment, gossip, and the punitive instincts of a culture that loves redemption stories only after they’re neatly packaged. Then she pivots to “look inside yourself and discover yourself,” borrowing the language of self-actualization that was gaining mainstream traction in the 1970s. It reframes treatment not as punishment, but as identity work: recovery as becoming, not just abstaining.
The subtext: you don’t have to be famous, broken, or desperate to deserve care. You just have to show up.
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| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ford, Betty. (2026, January 18). This is a place where you can go, that you can feel safe and look inside yourself and discover yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-is-a-place-where-you-can-go-that-you-can-23346/
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Ford, Betty. "This is a place where you can go, that you can feel safe and look inside yourself and discover yourself." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-is-a-place-where-you-can-go-that-you-can-23346/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"This is a place where you can go, that you can feel safe and look inside yourself and discover yourself." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-is-a-place-where-you-can-go-that-you-can-23346/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











