"This is what happens when you are on the wrong side of 40. Young adults, who could be your children, are now working with you. I was playing their parents or mentor. I started to think: Oh, I am not part of that group any more"
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What makes the line land is how plainly it frames the social math of a set. “Young adults, who could be your children, are now working with you” isn’t wistful; it’s disorienting. Rush isn’t only describing age difference, he’s describing a new hierarchy of relevance. When he says he was “playing their parents or mentor,” the subtext is blunt: the roles offered to you become a cultural verdict. You can still be excellent, still be famous, still be employed, but the camera’s idea of who gets to be “the group” has moved on.
Then comes the sharpest turn: “Oh, I am not part of that group any more.” It’s not bitterness so much as the sudden collapse of an assumption. Actors trade in transformation, yet the hardest transformation is personal: realizing your identity has been quietly outsourced to how others categorize you. Rush’s honesty exposes the industry’s youth obsession, but also a broader modern anxiety: aging isn’t feared for what it does to the body, but for how it redraws belonging, desirability, and narrative centrality.
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| Topic | Aging |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rush, Geoffrey. (2026, January 17). This is what happens when you are on the wrong side of 40. Young adults, who could be your children, are now working with you. I was playing their parents or mentor. I started to think: Oh, I am not part of that group any more. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-is-what-happens-when-you-are-on-the-wrong-70657/
Chicago Style
Rush, Geoffrey. "This is what happens when you are on the wrong side of 40. Young adults, who could be your children, are now working with you. I was playing their parents or mentor. I started to think: Oh, I am not part of that group any more." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-is-what-happens-when-you-are-on-the-wrong-70657/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"This is what happens when you are on the wrong side of 40. Young adults, who could be your children, are now working with you. I was playing their parents or mentor. I started to think: Oh, I am not part of that group any more." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-is-what-happens-when-you-are-on-the-wrong-70657/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.




