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"This was a mutual relationship, mutual on all levels, right from the way it started and all the way through. I don't accept that he had to completely desecrate my character"

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Lewinsky’s insistence on “mutual” isn’t nostalgia; it’s a legal and cultural counterpunch. In one word, she tries to reclaim agency from a story that turned her into a punchline and a cautionary tale while treating the most powerful man in the relationship as a complicated protagonist. The repetition - “mutual on all levels” - reads like someone arguing against a verdict that was never formally delivered, but endlessly rehearsed in late-night monologues, op-eds, and the quiet assumptions of workplaces.

The line that really bites is “I don’t accept.” It’s not a plea for sympathy; it’s a refusal of the script. For decades, public narratives about the Clinton scandal managed a neat trick: they acknowledged the affair while framing her as the contaminant. “Desecrate my character” is loaded, almost religiously so. Desecration implies a deliberate violation of something that should have remained intact, suggesting that her reputation wasn’t merely collateral damage but a sacrificial offering to preserve someone else’s legitimacy.

Context matters: she spoke from the long afterlife of the scandal, in an era newly fluent in power imbalances and media pile-ons. Calling the relationship “mutual” can sound, to some, like minimizing coercion. That tension is the point. Lewinsky isn’t denying asymmetry; she’s rejecting the convenient morality play where mutual desire somehow justifies unilateral destruction. The subtext: even if consent existed, cruelty wasn’t inevitable.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lewinsky, Monica. (2026, January 15). This was a mutual relationship, mutual on all levels, right from the way it started and all the way through. I don't accept that he had to completely desecrate my character. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-was-a-mutual-relationship-mutual-on-all-158964/

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Lewinsky, Monica. "This was a mutual relationship, mutual on all levels, right from the way it started and all the way through. I don't accept that he had to completely desecrate my character." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-was-a-mutual-relationship-mutual-on-all-158964/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"This was a mutual relationship, mutual on all levels, right from the way it started and all the way through. I don't accept that he had to completely desecrate my character." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/this-was-a-mutual-relationship-mutual-on-all-158964/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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