"Those that are most slow in making a promise are the most faithful in the performance of it"
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The phrasing quietly reverses what polite society rewards. We tend to prize the fluent yes, the quick reassurance, the charismatic vow. Rousseau sides with the hesitant speaker because hesitation signals accountability. A promise, for him, is not performance but constraint; it narrows future freedom. Anyone who understands that cost will pause. Anyone who doesn’t will promise lavishly and default casually.
The subtext is a critique of corruption by sociability itself. Rousseau, famously suspicious of salons, theater, and the manners of the urbane, reads public life as a training ground for hypocrisy: people learn to say what will be admired, not what will be honored. Slowness becomes a kind of resistance to that economy of appearance. It’s also a psychological insight: fidelity is built in the moment of commitment, not the moment of execution. The careful promiser has already rehearsed consequences.
Context matters. Writing in an Enlightenment era that celebrated reason and “progress,” Rousseau keeps circling back to the damage done when reputation outpaces character. His sentence is a small republican ethic: fewer vows, kept harder.
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