"Those that despise people will never get the best out of others and themselves"
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Contempt is Tocqueville's quiet villain: not loud tyranny, but the daily posture that makes tyranny possible. "Those that despise people" targets an elite reflex he watched in motion as democracy expanded and old hierarchies panicked. The line isn’t sentimental about the masses; it’s diagnostic. Treat people as lesser and you don’t just wrong them morally - you cripple your own capacity to govern, lead, or even think clearly about what society can do.
The phrasing is shrewdly practical. He links contempt to performance: you will "never get the best" out of others. In a democracy, power depends less on coercion than on buy-in, habits, and trust. Disdain burns that social capital. People respond to being treated as disposable with either withdrawal, resentment, or sabotage. Even compliance becomes brittle. Tocqueville understood that democratic life runs on invisible infrastructure: associations, civic pride, a belief that participation matters. Contempt corrodes all of it.
Then comes the twist that makes the sentence sting: contempt also blocks you from getting the best out of yourself. That’s Tocqueville’s deeper subtext about character. The contemptuous leader mistakes superiority for strength, but the habit of dismissing others narrows curiosity, empathy, and self-critique - the very tools needed to navigate a complex public. You end up trapped in your own caricature of the people you rule, and the punishment is mediocrity: poorer judgment, weaker institutions, smaller ambitions.
The phrasing is shrewdly practical. He links contempt to performance: you will "never get the best" out of others. In a democracy, power depends less on coercion than on buy-in, habits, and trust. Disdain burns that social capital. People respond to being treated as disposable with either withdrawal, resentment, or sabotage. Even compliance becomes brittle. Tocqueville understood that democratic life runs on invisible infrastructure: associations, civic pride, a belief that participation matters. Contempt corrodes all of it.
Then comes the twist that makes the sentence sting: contempt also blocks you from getting the best out of yourself. That’s Tocqueville’s deeper subtext about character. The contemptuous leader mistakes superiority for strength, but the habit of dismissing others narrows curiosity, empathy, and self-critique - the very tools needed to navigate a complex public. You end up trapped in your own caricature of the people you rule, and the punishment is mediocrity: poorer judgment, weaker institutions, smaller ambitions.
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| Topic | Respect |
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