"Those that vow the most are the least sincere"
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The subtext is transactional. A vow isn’t just a private moral act; it’s public currency. The more emphatic the pledge, the more it tries to buy belief in advance, to foreclose doubt with volume. Sheridan, writing in the late 18th-century world of salons, courtship rituals, and reputational games, understood how language could function as camouflage. In comedies of manners, characters don’t just fall in love or betray each other; they audition for status, for virtue, for being seen as the kind of person who keeps vows. Over-vowing becomes a tell: it’s not confidence, it’s insecurity dressed up as conviction.
What makes the line work is its cool asymmetry. It doesn’t claim that people who never vow are saints; it targets the specific spectacle of the oath as overcompensation. Sheridan’s cynicism isn’t nihilism, it’s diagnostic: sincerity is usually quiet because it expects to be tested by time, not applauded on delivery. The sharpness lands because we recognize the pattern everywhere vows exist as performance - from courtship to politics to brand apologies - proof that the stage Sheridan mocked never closed.
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Sheridan, Richard Brinsley. (2026, January 15). Those that vow the most are the least sincere. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-that-vow-the-most-are-the-least-sincere-153093/
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Sheridan, Richard Brinsley. "Those that vow the most are the least sincere." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-that-vow-the-most-are-the-least-sincere-153093/.
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"Those that vow the most are the least sincere." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-that-vow-the-most-are-the-least-sincere-153093/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.











