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Life's Pleasures Quote by Ben E. King

"Those things don't happen today. I feel sorry for the kids in the industry today. They have on sunglasses, eat caviar in jet planes, but they'll never know the true feeling that we did"

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Nostalgia can be a flex, and Ben E. King knows it. He sketches a split-screen of two music worlds: the one he came up in, where the “true feeling” was earned in cramped vans, segregated venues, and precarious gigs; and today’s industry, where success arrives prepackaged as lifestyle content. The sunglasses and caviar aren’t just props of wealth. They’re shields and symbols - brand armor that suggests distance from the audience, from risk, from the messy grind that once made performers depend on craft and connection.

King’s intent isn’t simply “kids these days.” It’s a lament for a lost apprenticeship. In the early R&B and soul ecosystem, feeling wasn’t a marketing adjective; it was survival. The voice had to cut through bad sound systems, skeptical crowds, and the everyday pressures of being a Black artist in mid-century America. That history hums beneath his wording: “we” signals a cohort forged by shared constraint, a collective identity that today’s hyper-individualized fame machine struggles to reproduce.

The subtext is also a critique of how the industry now manufactures authenticity. When art becomes inseparable from luxury optics, emotion can start to look like another accessory. King isn’t denying today’s artists face real pressures; he’s saying the pressure has changed shape - from physical and social hardship into curated performance and constant visibility. His pity is really a warning: comfort can dull the urgency that once turned heartbreak into records that lasted.

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King, Ben E. (2026, January 17). Those things don't happen today. I feel sorry for the kids in the industry today. They have on sunglasses, eat caviar in jet planes, but they'll never know the true feeling that we did. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-things-dont-happen-today-i-feel-sorry-for-43147/

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King, Ben E. "Those things don't happen today. I feel sorry for the kids in the industry today. They have on sunglasses, eat caviar in jet planes, but they'll never know the true feeling that we did." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-things-dont-happen-today-i-feel-sorry-for-43147/.

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"Those things don't happen today. I feel sorry for the kids in the industry today. They have on sunglasses, eat caviar in jet planes, but they'll never know the true feeling that we did." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-things-dont-happen-today-i-feel-sorry-for-43147/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

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Ben E. King (September 28, 1938 - April 30, 2015) was a Musician from USA.

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