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Daily Inspiration Quote by William Hazlitt

"Those who can command themselves command others"

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Control is Hazlitt's real definition of charisma: not charm, not volume, not the ability to dominate a room, but the ability to dominate your own impulses first. Coming from a critic - a profession built on observing other people's performances - the line reads like a backstage note on how power actually works. Leaders, artists, demagogues: the successful ones project an inner steadiness that makes everyone else relax their grip and follow.

The intent is almost puritan in its clarity. Self-command isn't just a private virtue; it's a social technology. If you can keep your temper, your appetites, your panic, your vanity from steering the wheel, you appear reliable under pressure. That reliability becomes authority. Hazlitt isn't romanticizing stoicism as moral purity; he's describing a mechanism: discipline produces credibility, and credibility produces influence.

The subtext has teeth. It's a rebuke to the performative strongman, the person who "commands" by force because they can't regulate themselves. Hazlitt implies that bluster is often compensation, that tyranny can be a form of emotional incontinence. The most dangerous commander may be the one least capable of command internally.

Context matters: Hazlitt wrote in the wake of revolutions and reaction, when "command" was not metaphorical. As an essayist skeptical of cant and hero-worship, he compresses a whole political psychology into one epigram. The line flatters the self-disciplined reader, but it also warns: the easiest person to rule is the one who can't rule themselves.

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William Hazlitt

William Hazlitt (April 10, 1778 - September 18, 1830) was a Critic from England.

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