"Those who do not know how to live must make a merit of dying"
About this Quote
The phrase “make a merit” is the tell. Shaw is mocking the moral bookkeeping that turns failure into virtue. You couldn’t build a life of curiosity, pleasure, responsibility, or courage? Fine - rebrand your exit as noble. It’s cynicism with purpose: he’s indicting a culture that rewards dramatic sacrifice while undervaluing the less photogenic heroism of daily living. The subtext is anti-martyrdom, anti-posturing, anti-anything that lets society outsource meaning to funerals and monuments.
As a dramatist and public contrarian, Shaw wrote in a world saturated with Victorian pieties and, later, the rhetoric of patriotic death. His plays repeatedly expose how institutions (church, state, family) manufacture “good” narratives for people to hide inside. This aphorism works because it refuses the comforting script. It implies that the real moral achievement isn’t dying well; it’s living well - and that the loudest talk of noble death can be a confession of having missed the point.
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| Topic | Mortality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shaw, George Bernard. (2026, January 17). Those who do not know how to live must make a merit of dying. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-do-not-know-how-to-live-must-make-a-29188/
Chicago Style
Shaw, George Bernard. "Those who do not know how to live must make a merit of dying." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-do-not-know-how-to-live-must-make-a-29188/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Those who do not know how to live must make a merit of dying." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-do-not-know-how-to-live-must-make-a-29188/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












