"Those who enjoy their own emotionally bad health and who habitually fill their own minds with the rank poisons of suspicion, jealousy and hatred, as a rule take umbrage at those who refuse to do likewise, and they find a perverted relief in trying to denigrate them"
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The sharpness lands in the social dynamic: "as a rule take umbrage at those who refuse to do likewise". Brahms nails the coercive nature of negativity. If you won’t participate in the shared bitterness, you become an implicit accusation. Your refusal threatens their story that the world is rigged and everyone is as compromised as they are. So they reach for "perverted relief" by denigrating you - not because you’ve wronged them, but because cutting you down restores emotional equilibrium. If they can make you smaller, they don’t have to grow.
Context matters: 19th-century musical culture ran on prestige, patrons, rivalries, and press sniping, with reputations made and broken in salons and newspapers. Brahms, famously private and often prickly, understood how quickly envy dresses itself up as principle. Underneath the moral language is a practical warning to artists: don’t confuse other people’s contempt with your failure; it may be their maintenance dose.
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Brahms, Johannes. (2026, January 17). Those who enjoy their own emotionally bad health and who habitually fill their own minds with the rank poisons of suspicion, jealousy and hatred, as a rule take umbrage at those who refuse to do likewise, and they find a perverted relief in trying to denigrate them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-enjoy-their-own-emotionally-bad-health-52095/
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Brahms, Johannes. "Those who enjoy their own emotionally bad health and who habitually fill their own minds with the rank poisons of suspicion, jealousy and hatred, as a rule take umbrage at those who refuse to do likewise, and they find a perverted relief in trying to denigrate them." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-enjoy-their-own-emotionally-bad-health-52095/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Those who enjoy their own emotionally bad health and who habitually fill their own minds with the rank poisons of suspicion, jealousy and hatred, as a rule take umbrage at those who refuse to do likewise, and they find a perverted relief in trying to denigrate them." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/those-who-enjoy-their-own-emotionally-bad-health-52095/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.









